To love, beauty
There is more joy in being able to share that tasty food, beautiful scenery and adventure with that special someone who shares your sense of beauty and joy. So just why do I always work so hard for the impossibles to happen? Because they are challenging. Why am I competitive in a relationship? Because competition is fun and stimulating. Growing up thinking I have immunized self from pop culture by not watching much TV, I realized I still hold so much idea of what romance is defined by romantic movies and Victorian literature. We are not supposed to know what form or shape love comes in. There is no magic formula for love except for a litmus test: genuine authentic happiness.
Orchid is a symbol for love, beauty and refinement.